What is love shyness ?

All is about males which remain perpetually single. For many people it is hard to understand why a person could not get a girlfriend or find someone to marry with. But its more than that. It’s about lacking some essential abilities. In my opinion these guys are like  some people that  have physical disabilities. But they have mental disabilities.

Love shyness is a severe shyness that prevent intimate relationships. But i think what is  more than having a relationship is a severe pain and severe anxiety they suffer about. They may not show it and people may not understand but their inner world is something most people could not even imagine about it. a severe and continuous pain including many traumatic impulses. Beside this they are  often subjected to many agonizing experiences in social situations.

In future I try to introduce my ideas about what love shyness is and how to deal with it. I think that these ideas are very useful and could run a love shy better to solve many of his problems.


I don’t want to talk about all aspects of this disorder but if you want to know more:

The term love shyness is well defined and introduced by Dr. Brian G. Gilmartin in his masterpeice “Shyness and Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatment “. For better understanding of this phenomenon you can refer to this book to know about everything. If you don’t know if you are a love shy or not you can take a test.  (This test is also available in Dr. Gilmartin’s book.)


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